Compare your relationship personalities
See your Big Five traits side by side with your partner’s. Explore how you each recharge, plan, handle stress and enjoy ideas, then use five conversation starters to talk together.
Each person takes the free 50-statement IPIP Big Five test. Share only five scores and use a conversation starter for each trait.
Take the Big Five test, then return here to send a link to your partner.
The link shares only your five trait scores. Your item answers are never included. Your partner’s scores are used only on this page.
About this comparison
Similarity in Big Five traits relates only weakly to relationship satisfaction in research. This comparison is for understanding each other. Dyrenforth et al. (2010), Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
Items: IPIP 50-item Big-Five Factor Markers, Lewis Goldberg (1992), public domain. IPIP source.